Selecting the Perfect Dog Trainer: 6 Tips to Set your Dog up for Success
- MM
- Sep 18, 2024
- 5 min read
Updated: Jun 11
Whether it's basic puppy training or addressing aggressive behavior, proper training is essential to ensure your dog leads a fulfilling life and remains well-managed, allowing you both to enjoy your time with each other.

I decided to start working with a trainer when Marlee was 5 years old. While she already had a wonderful quality of life, due to her reactivity, I found myself avoiding situations like putting her in the car during busy times, keeping exercise limited to our backyard, and worrying about her jumping on guests. It became clear that with professional training, not only would Marlee be able to enjoy more experiences, but I would also feel more confident and less anxious when taking her out of the house.
After researching dog trainers who specialize in reactivity, I found a local company. While I won’t mention the name for privacy reasons, let's just say... I ended up quitting after about three months.
This company boldly promised that Marlee would be fully trained in just four weeks—a claim I found overly ambitious, especially given how severe her reactivity was. As expected, by the end of the four weeks, not only had her reactivity not improved, but it had actually worsened.
After much reflection, repeated setbacks, and a noticeable toll on my attitude, I ultimately decided to part ways with the trainer. It became clear that Marlee was being pushed into situations that clearly upset her, without being given the chance to succeed. I knew in my heart that she could be successful with a slower and different approach.
After consulting with a dog behaviorist, I found our next trainer, and the difference was immediate. From the moment he walked in, I could sense a shift compared to my first trainer; even just the vibes were simply more positive.
Each time we finished a session with our first trainer, I left feeling defeated, as if Marlee was being treated like a 'bad dog'—but I knew she wasn’t. I knew she was simply frustrated and didn’t know how to manage it.
The new trainer brought a completely different energy. He was patient, laughed at her quirks, and took the time to observe her playful side. He confirmed what I had always believed: her reactivity was driven by frustration, not aggression. He provided a clear plan and reassured me that I could reach out anytime with questions. It felt like the support Marlee and I truly needed.
This is when I realized the importance of choosing the right trainer. Here are some of my best tips for choosing the right trainer for you and your pup.

They use training tactics that you are comfortable with.
This topic can be a bit tricky. No matter what training tool you come across, someone will always disagree with its use. Whether it’s e-collars, prong collars, harnesses, positive reinforcement-only methods, whistles, clickers—the list goes on. That’s why it’s crucial to do your own research and determine what you’re comfortable with.
It’s equally important to choose tools that are specifically suited to your dog’s needs. Some tools work well for certain behaviors but can be harmful for others. If you’re unsure about any tool, have an open conversation with your potential trainer. Ask them what tools they use, how they apply them, and why. You might even try one out in a session. If it still doesn’t feel right, explore other options. And if the trainer insists on using something that makes you uncomfortable, it’s probably time to look for a different trainer who aligns with your values.
2. They are qualified
It’s crucial to ensure that your trainer is experienced and certified, especially when using tools like prong collars or e-collars. These tools can be effective, but only when applied correctly by a knowledgeable professional. If a trainer uses them carelessly or without proper certification, they can do far more harm than good to your dog. Additionally, if you're investing in professional training, it’s important to receive accurate, well-informed guidance to ensure your dog’s safety and progress.
3. They communicate well
Since effective training must continue beyond sessions with a trainer, it's essential that they maintain clear communication and provide timely support and advice. Equally important is their willingness to listen to your concerns. If something makes you uncomfortable, a good trainer will be open to explaining their approach and adjusting the method, ensuring your comfort without compromising your dog’s progress. Flexibility and responsiveness are key indicators of a strong, supportive trainer-client relationship.
4. Pricing
Dog training prices can be steep, often reaching thousands of dollars. If you're comfortable making such an investment, be sure it’s worth it. The cost should reflect the quality of the trainer’s sessions, their communication outside of training, and the results you’re seeing. You can usually gauge this during your first visit or by reading reviews. While some prices may seem excessive, there are also plenty of affordable resources that can help you make progress in the meantime—or even achieve great results on their own while you save up
5. They have good reviews
As mentioned earlier, reviews are crucial in determining whether a trainer's price is justified. Look for feedback from clients who had similar issues to yours and see how their experiences turned out. For example if your dog struggles with reactivity, and the reviews highlight the trainer’s effectiveness for basic obedience but fail to address reactivity, it might be worth considering other options. Ensure the trainer's expertise aligns with your specific needs.
6. Environment
Trainers offer various training environments, such as public locations, private lessons at your home, group classes, or sessions in their own facility. It's essential to choose a setting that suits your dog's specific needs. For example, if your dog’s issues are confined to your home, having the trainer come to your house might be more effective. Conversely, if your dog struggles with reactivity, training exclusively at home may not be sufficient. Contact the trainer beforehand to discuss how they tailor their environment to address your dog's unique challenges and ensure the best possible outcome.

Ultimately, you know your dog better than anyone else, so choosing a trainer you and your dog can trust is crucial. A skilled trainer can make a significant impact on both you and your dog’s progress. Finding the right fit is essential for achieving success. Be sure to conduct thorough research online and consider reaching out to your vet or behaviorist for recommendations on reputable trainers in your area.
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Disclaimer: I am not a professional or a trainer. The tips provided are based on my personal experiences with trainers and my opinions on what has worked best for me and my dog. It is important to conduct your own research and consult with a qualified trainer, veterinarian, or other professionals before making any significant decisions regarding your dog’s care and training.
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